Create Your Dream Life

Discover Your True Potential, Release Your Fears & Make Your Dream Life a Reality

What if you could design your ideal life and have the tools to turn that life into a reality?

Whether it's discovering your purpose, doing what you love, making a positive impact, or simply creating a beautiful, fun and fulfilling life—you can totally do it.

You are the artist of your life. You have the power to create your dream life.


Hey love, does any of this sound familiar?

Lost, confused, stuck. You seriously have no idea what you’re meant to do with your life. This is eating you from the inside out, because you usually like to have a plan and have your next steps figured out.

Frustrated because you don’t know where to start. You’re typically an ambitious person, but your lack of direction is holding you back. You know you're meant for big things in life, but you're not sure what those big things are.

Anxious about everything: the uncertainty of the future, not having control over your life, comparing yourself to your peers. You’re not as confident as you’d like to be, and sometimes have trouble fully believing in yourself.

Unsure of how to connect the dots between your dreams and your reality. You want to achieve your dreams, but you have so many questions: How do I overcome my fears? How do I commit without quitting? How do I make a living? You need detailed guidance to help get you there.

Craving meaning and fulfillment. You don’t want to live life on the surface, you want to live life fully and deeply. You're not here to settle for mediocre. You want to make a difference in the world. You want to do something that matters.

Ready to level up in life. You’re sick of being stuck where you are and you’re ready to build a better mindset, better habits, and a better life for yourself. You’re ready to do something different, in order to achieve different results.

Could you relate to any (or all) of the above?

Don’t worry, I totally get you.

Thankfully, you’re in the right place.


Now, imagine how it would feel if you could...

Wake up inspired and excited for your day, knowing that you’re doing what you’re meant to be doing.

Live a happy and successful life on your terms, aligned to your values, your purpose and your soul.

Overcome your fears and limiting beliefs, with the confidence to handle anything life throws your way.

Make a positive impact on the world, utilizing your talents, gifts and strengths to contribute to something bigger than yourself.

Introducing: Create Your Dream Life


Create Your Dream Life is a six-week step-by-step course designed to help you discover your true potential, release your fears, and make your dream life a reality.

Here's what you'll get with the course:

  • Access to six video lesson modules (actual filmed videos of your instructor—not narrated slide presentations, with optional captions in English)
  • Interactive downloadable workbooks & printable PDF resources
  • 50+ actionable exercises and journaling prompts
  • Membership into the exclusive Create Your Dream Life Community Facebook group
  • Access to three pre-recorded Q&A sessions with Aileen (recorded during the live run of the course - June/July 2019)
  • BONUSES: Two bonus workshops made specifically for the Create Your Dream Life course & a positive affirmations audio download
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One time payment of $249
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4 monthly payments of $75

I had to figure it out the hard (& slow) way…

In college, I was really lost and struggled with figuring out what to do with my life. I wanted to do "big things," but had no idea what that looked like or how to make it happen.

I tried out multiple internships, but never felt like I "fit" with any of them. I couldn’t see myself working in an office setting where my talents and strengths weren’t being fully utilized.

During my senior year, I started to get really depressed, unmotivated and frustrated. I was mad at myself, too, because I had always done well in school. Why couldn’t I figure this out?

Meanwhile, my peers were getting cushy jobs right out of school and the pressure from family and society to "get a good job" was getting heavier and heavier. I felt like such a failure..

Still, I knew that if I took the "safe" route by getting a job I disliked, I'd end up hating my life. Deep down, I knew I couldn't settle.

After graduation, I took a chance and started following my heart to whatever opportunities felt right to me. I decided to let my life unfold, taking a leap of faithinto the unknown.

It wasn’t easy. And I didn’t make much money for a while. But as uncertain and scrappy as the journey was, I loved it.

For the first time in my life, I was listening to my inner voice, getting out of my comfort zone, learning how to be an artist, and carving my path as a creative in this world.

It’s been 7 years since I made that leap, and since then I’ve been led through an amazing and fulfilling creative journey that I could have never planned for myself: from releasing an album to acting and producing short films, to speaking at TEDxYouth and Stanford University, launching the Artist of Life Workbook and building a community of over 1.35 million subscribers on YouTube. I traveled to 28 countries, read over 75 books on personal development, spirituality and creativity, interviewed over 150 guests on my podcast, and shared my insights and lessons with millions of people online. One by one, I witnessed my dreams become my reality. It’s an incredible feeling.

Ultimately, I learned how to create a life that I absolutely love, one that allows me to be financially free, and feels 100% aligned to my soul and purpose on this earth. I've learned so much about how to lead a happier, more successful and more meaningful life.

This is the beautiful realization I want for you—to uncover the amazing life that is meant for you. To help you make your dream life a reality, too.

The best part is, you’ll get all of my 7+ years of experience in personal growth and lifestyle design distilled down to a structured step-by-step course.

All of my messy mistakes, years of trial-and-error, DIY journal prompts and exercises that have helped my journey are now thoughtfully organized and curated for YOU.

All you have to do is start.

This is the program I wish I had when I was 21 and desperately lost with my life. I didn’t have it then, but now I’ve created it for you, so you don’t have to go it alone.

So tell me, are you ready to create your dream life?

Course Overview: What's Included

Create Your Dream Life is a six-week interactive program

Designed to give you the tools to bring every aspect of your dream life closer to becoming a reality, here's what you can expect to explore each week:


  • What it looks like to live in 'flow' and why that should be your goal
  • How to figure out what truly matters to you, instead of what you're told should matter to you
  • Ways to find your Why, the drive that will keep you going when you feel like giving up


  • How to unlearn and remove the mindsets, beliefs, and habits that have been holding you back
  • The one mindset shift you must make that will change everything
  • Diving deep into building the mindsets for lifelong success and growth


  • A method for finding and attracting the career you love vs. just settling for one you don't hate
  • What to do if you have multiple passions and you're afraid of picking the wrong one
  • How to follow your passion while still being realistic about paying the bills


  • Ways to break your dreams down into manageable actions, from daily habits to big life decisions
  • How to organize your priorities and make an easy-to-follow plan of action
  • What to do when you have everything planned out but just can't seem to actually start


  • How to stop letting fear get in the way between you and your dreams
  • A powerful exercise for addressing and overcoming all types of fears: fear of failure, fear of judgment, fear of success, and more.
  • Ways to beat procrastination, perfectionism, and the inevitable comparison traps


  • How to stay committed to your goals and build up consistency in your daily habits
  • Strategies for when things don't go as planned & how to find motivation again
  • How to avoid burnout and actually enjoy your dream life journey

Enjoy these amazing bonuses!

Diving deeper in the law of attraction and manifesting, this bonus workshop breaks down how the law of attraction works and the crucial steps you need to take to make it work for you. You'll learn multiple manifesting exercises to easily and effortlessly attract your dream life to you.

Bonus #2 - HEALING PAST WOUNDS WORKSHOP ($129 value)
Sometimes what holds us back are old wounds and thought patterns that run deep. This bonus workshop helps you look into childhood/past traumas and stories that have shaped who you are, guiding you through addressing, releasing and healing from these wounds so that they no longer hold power over you. Learn to forgive, take back control over your life and write a new ending for yourself.

Reprogram your mind for self love and positive thinking with the bonus positive affirmations audio download created specifically for the Create Your Dream Life Course! This audio includes sixteen positive affirmations set to relaxing music, meant to be played on repeat while meditating, driving, or getting ready.

You'll also get access to our exclusive Facebook community filled with supportive, like-minded beautiful souls who understand what you're going through. This is your space to connect, engage, ask questions, and get accountability to stay committed to your goals. Hear about additional resources and find inspiration and motivation from the group!

During the live run of the course (June/July 2019), students participated in live Q&A sessions with Aileen, creator of Lavendaire and your instructor for the course! Aileen answered questions in live video sessions in the Facebook community. You will have access to these recorded sessions to watch whenever you'd like!

Create Your Dream Life is now open for enrollment!

Enroll Now
One time payment of $249
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4 monthly payments of $75

What students have to say about the course:


"I started this course mainly to get over my fears and start living my life. Understanding what my actual real priorities are has helped me immensely! Now, I feel like fear is in the back seat watching me thrive in my life. Such a good feeling... Great things are coming."

- Sophia Chia Torres


"This course has completely changed and improved my life for the better!... I can't even begin to put into words how much it has helped me. I'm so incredibly grateful for each module, every video, the workbooks, for all the additional resources...THANK YOU, Aileen! Thank you for all the work you've put into this! It's been a true blessing in my life and I will forever be grateful!"

- Vanessa Espinosa


"I want to take the time to thank you, Aileen, for your incredible guidance throughout these last six weeks. I’m hoping to repeat these exercises every few months so I check back in on what I want and how to continue to curate the dream life I desire for. You are incredible!!!"

- Veronica Mak

"I am loving this course! It has helped me so much to be confident in who I am, which is invaluable to me."

- Anna Christine de Gier-Merritt

"Before I started... I was just wishing & hoping about starting my business. Now I'm actually doing it! It's an extremely lean start up, but I learned it's not impossible. I've done hours worth of Google searches to find what I need but it's all paying off!"

- Mina Strange

"Just finished watching the Healing Past Wounds Workshop and I absolutely loved it. The stages of healing is definitely what I needed to truly let go of the bad past experience I had several years ago and understand the ultimate power that forgiveness has. Thank you, Aileen, for the fantastic lessons and perspectives I have gained from the workshop."

- Ashley Winn

"Landed 3rd freelance gig in line with my dream life! This one will allow me great pay. It's ALWAYS been my dream to work for myself instead of a 9-5... since I've discovered Lavendaire it's helped me make that possible. I'm genuinely crying tears of joy because I almost cannot believe it's happening, and so quickly."

- Chelli Johnson

Let's work together to

Create Your Dream Life


About Aileen & Lavendaire

Aileen Xu is a content creator and entrepreneur in personal growth and lifestyle design, inspiring people around the world to embrace their true potential and create their dream life.

Her YouTube channel Lavendaire has over 1.7 million subscribers and 130 million views. Her podcast, The Lavendaire Lifestyle, has over 7 million downloads.

Through Lavendaire, Aileen has helped millions of people discover themselves, change their mindsets and transform their lives for the better.

A lover of journaling and actionable exercises, Aileen is the creator of the Artist of Life Workbook, a detailed guide to creating your most inspiring and successful year, and the Daily Planner by Lavendaire, a tool for designing a productive, effective and meaningful day.

This course is right for you if...

  • You're tired of feeling stuck, confused, or lost in life
  • You're ready to make important promises to yourself (and follow through on them)
  • You understand that big change comes from consistent action, every day
  • You want to feel confident and empowered in yourself
  • You're ready to achieve great things and know that everything you want can (and will) be yours

This course is NOT right for you if...

  • You aren't willing to watch all of the module videos, complete the weekly worksheets and exercises, and take action on what you've learned
  • You're looking for a shortcut or quick fix to your problems, without an investment of your valuable time and energy
  • You make excuses for why certain things "won't work" for you and your life circumstances

Questions you might be asking...

You have lifetime access to the course! After enrolling, you can revisit or retake the course at any time for as long as you'd like.

The course is designed so that you work on one module per week, lasting six weeks for six modules.

Each video module will take around 30 minutes to 1 hour to watch. We encourage you to set aside an additional 1-2 hours per week to complete the worksheets and exercises, and up to another hour to revisit the worksheets throughout the week.

The entire course is now live! You can access all of the course material right now and work through everything at your own pace.

To make the most of the course, we encourage you to keep up with the course material weekly. However, there's no need to finish each module within the week it is released. You can work through the course at your own pace, if needed.

If the course doesn't work out for you, our refund policy extends to 30 days. See our Payment & Returns page for more info!

Q&As have been saved to the Facebook group, so you can watch the replays whenever you can!

Yes! The Create Your Dream Life course will go into much more depth and lead to greater results than the Dream Life Series. We'll be exploring more topics, completing new worksheets, and working through more inspiring exercises.

The Dream Life Series is great for beginners, but for those looking for a more structured program with a guided experience, the Create Your Dream Life course is the next step up!

I've personally learned so much about designing my own life since I created the Dream Life Series, and I'll be sharing those new exclusive insights in the course.

So will you keep putting off your dreams... or will you start creating the life you've always wanted?

The best time to start is now.

Enroll Now
One time payment of $249
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4 monthly payments of $75